Oenothera Species, Scarlet Beeblossum, Scarlet Gaura

don't know if admins watch the comments, but "beeblossum" is misspelled :p

This is not in my yard (at this time), but on the other side of the gravel road from us. "Oh, please County, do not mow this! I want to g...Read Moreather some seed first."

The reason for a positive without much experience is hummingbirds like this stuff! I planted Columbine, but they have no interest in that, so I want to have more of what these birds really want. Also in the winter, I saw Juncos eating the seeds. I already have a good spot in mind.

This plant showed its existence to me this year in Bandera, TX due to the weed eater being broken. It is such a beautiful flower and I ha...Read Moreve it growing wild with some seedlings appearing. I plan to transplant the seedlings even though pink and white are not my colors.

I am checking "Neutral" here because my experience has been both extremely positive - in that the flower is just lovely - I adore it! - b...Read Moreut also negative in that I have never had a gaura plant last through the winter here in upstate New York - zone 5-6.
No matter how well it flourishes in the garden and seems to be well-established, it has never come back for me - so far. I keep trying, though.
I am writing to ask if anyone has any guidance to offer that might help me over-winter this lovely plant. I find it most enchanting and I'm so disappointed in the spring - and summer - when it simply does not reappear!
Many thanks.
Jonella
Sullivan County (80 miles from NYC.)